I believe it is quite important to stop having expectations from the people from our lives.
Because … honestly speaking … first of all is … useless.
It’s a waste of … energy.
It’s naivety … in its absolute form.
I’ve lived having lots … lots of expectations … but experiencing life … the passing of time made me realise that it’s better to disconnect from illusory habit.
So …. I’ve done it.
… becoming detached.
Expecting as anything to happen … but …
And … guess what?!
Life became better.
… much better.
I was not experiencing anymore … any kind of pain.
… no negative emotions.
All my frustrations … suddenly disappeared … cause i’ve realised that i don’t need to get rid of frustrations … neither of what generated them … but of those illusory thoughts of expecting anything from anyone.
Somehow … I’ve disconnected from them.
… all of them.
I knew there is a probability as something good … or bad to happen …. but i’ve started to treat all as normality.
As … a normal process of life.
And … if i really wanted to have expectations … i should actually have expectations …. from myself.
Only … from myself.
Firstly … to be a better actor on the stage of life.
Try to be … that character … which before getting rid of my expectations … i was expecting from the others to be.
Be a better … human.
Act nicely with everyone.
Act … in fact … as a person which is under the dominance of the real values of life.
But …. it was a long journey.
Unfortunately … too long.
Today … i am happy i can live without expectations … or at least with not so, so many expectations …. as i’ve used to have.
So … maybe all of us … should try that … at least as an experiment …
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