Live without …. expectations by romanian author Adrian Dumitru

I believe it is quite important to stop having expectations from the people from our lives.

Because … honestly speaking … first of all is … useless.

It’s a waste of … energy.

It’s naivety … in its absolute form.

I’ve lived having lots … lots of expectations … but experiencing life … the passing of time made me realise that it’s better to disconnect from illusory habit.

So …. I’ve done it.

… becoming detached.

Expecting as anything to happen … but …

And … guess what?!

Life became better.

… much better.

I was not experiencing anymore … any kind of pain.

… no negative emotions.

All my frustrations … suddenly disappeared … cause i’ve realised that i don’t need to get rid of frustrations … neither of what generated them … but of those illusory thoughts of expecting anything from anyone.

Somehow … I’ve disconnected from them.

… all of them.

 

I knew there is a probability as something good … or bad to happen …. but i’ve started to treat all as normality.

As … a normal process of life.

And … if i really wanted to have expectations … i should actually have expectations …. from myself.

Only … from myself.

Firstly … to be a better actor on the stage of life.

Try to be … that character … which before getting rid of my expectations … i was expecting from the others to be.

Be a better … human.

Act nicely with everyone.

Act … in fact … as a person which is under the dominance of the real values of life.

But …. it was a long journey.

Unfortunately … too long.

Today … i am happy i can live without expectations … or at least with not so, so many expectations …. as i’ve used to have.

So … maybe all of us … should try that … at least as an experiment …

 

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